Together with our precious and faithful Holy Spirit, I am going to attempt to bring clarity on the reality of love, mostly from the writings of John, the disciple whom Jesus loved. It is evident from John's writings that he had a deeper understanding of who Jesus was, and I can only presume that it came from his close walk with Jesus. I imagine him hanging onto every word and movement Jesus uttered while the others were picturing Jesus as an earthly king to set them free from Roman oppression. He had deeper insight into who Jesus was and what He came to do. He certainly had great insight into God’s amazing love, and he put a lot of emphasis on it in his writings in both the gospel of John and in his letters, the Epistles 1, 2, and 3 John.
Let us start with 1 John 4:7: Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God.
I thought one had to say a sinner's prayer to be born of God.
When we are born of human parents, we inherit their characteristics - our features, talents, nature, and personality. Have you ever been told, "I can see your mom in you," or "you remind me so much of your dad"? When you do certain little things, such as clearing your throat, making certain facial movements, or speaking, aren't you often reminded of one of your parents you see in yourself? Even weaknesses your parents have/had show in you.
What is the sign of being born of God?
May I quote a description of God to you?
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 Amplified: [4] Love endures long and is
patient and kind; love never is envious nor boils over with jealousy, is not
boastful or vainglorious, does not display itself haughtily.
[5] It is not conceited (arrogant and inflated with pride);
it is not rude (unmannerly) and does not act unbecomingly. Love (God's love in
us) does not insist on its own rights or its own way, for it is not
self-seeking; it is not touchy or fretful or resentful; it takes no account of
the evil done to it [it pays no attention to a suffered wrong].
[6] It does not rejoice at injustice and unrighteousness,
but rejoices when right and truth prevail.
[7] Love bears up under anything and everything that comes,
is ever ready to believe the best of every person, its hopes are fadeless under
all circumstances, and it endures everything [without weakening].
We'll read in 1 John 4:8 that God is love. We can, therefore, replace the word love in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 above with the word God. These are all of God's characteristics. We said earlier that you were born to your parents and inherited some of their characteristics.
Therefore, if you are born of God, you would have inherited His characteristics, which are summarised in one word: love.
Can you change the mannerisms, strengths, and weaknesses inherited from your parents? No, you can't. You are stuck with them.
Can you change the characteristics that you inherited from God? No. So what if you don't act in love, which is who God is? That brings us to 1 John 4:8: "Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love".
Oops! So, how do we know we are born again and are like God? We look at our behaviour, interests, priorities, how we deal with people, our desires, etc., and we test them against and compare them to who God is as described in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7.
We will continue next time.