In the previous post, we discussed
forgiveness, which encompasses a lifestyle of giving and serving. As our last
passage stated, “But I tell you, do not resist an evil person. If
someone strikes you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also. And if
someone wants to sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak as well.
If someone forces you to go one mile, go with him two miles,” (Matthew 5:39-41).
The next passage continues from the
above, although it puts more emphasis on the generality of love rather than
focusing on people offending us.
Give to the one who asks you, and do not turn
away from the one who wants to borrow from you. (Matthew 5:42)
Think for a moment about this
passage. How many people have asked you for things that you haven’t given?
But must we give to everyone who asks
of us? What about beggars who buy liquor with the money they receive? Must we
keep on feeding their habit?
I have struggled with this for a long
time. I have given clothes away only to find out the recipient sold them for
drinking money. An elderly lady, previously a neighbor of ours, once made a
delicious sandwich for a beggar only to discover the food thrown away in the
garden hours later. The beggar was not hungry; he wanted money for a drink.
Once a man came to our door, telling us a sad story about a sick child and that
he needed money to take the boy to the doctor. Several months later, though,
the man came by again, telling exactly the same story, obviously hoping no one
would remember hearing it before.
A pastor told of a beggar who asked
him for food money. The minister gave him a few dollars, warning him to buy
bread with it and no alcohol. Then my friend followed the man, who led him
straight to the liquor store. As the beggar set a bottle of wine onto the
counter, the pastor confronted him. The beggar’s eyes opened wide as his gaze
dropped to the bottle. “I don’t believe it. I asked them for bread, and look
what they gave me.”
The world is full of conmen trying to
wangle our hard-earned money from us so they can waste it on sin. So what does
the Lord want from us in the light of the above scripture?
Like many things in life, it is all
about attitude. The Bible is not a book of rules that we must follow to the
letter. It is a book full of directions, aimed at guiding our attitudes. Paul
said in 1 Corinthians 6:12: “‘Everything is permissible for me,’—but not
everything is beneficial. ‘Everything is permissible for me,’—but I will not be
mastered by anything.”
God made us with a free will. We are
not robots to be manipulated by God or man (the church). All our sins have been
paid for at the cross and are forgiven. God treats us as adults, allowing us to
make our own decisions, not as children. He does not enforce his rules, holding
a whip in His hand.
It is quite simple. In the end, Jesus
will judge our works. If we did a lot of good works, we will receive a lot of
rewards. If we did no good works, we will receive no rewards. “And I saw
the dead, great and small, standing before the throne, and books were opened.
Another book was opened, which is the book of life. The dead were judged
according to what they had done as recorded in the books” (Revelation 20:12). We will not be punished,
because Jesus already took our punishment on Himself, and we have already been
disciplined on earth whenever it was necessary.
Our attitude, in approaching those
who ask, is therefore what counts. It is best to decide beforehand how you will
deal with beggars. I have, for example, decided that I will under no
circumstances give money but will always give food. It doesn’t matter what the
beggar does with it. It is also important to be a good steward of both your
money and your food, because your family is your first priority.
We know a widow who has a kind and
gentle heart, too kind to avoid abuse by beggars. She gave to them until they
became a problem and a nuisance. Finally, it became too much for her, and she consulted
the Lord. He reminded her of 2 Thessalonians 3:10b: “‘If a man
will not work, he shall not eat.’”
The next time a beggar turned up, she
gave him a rake and asked him to rake up some leaves in payment for his food.
Before long, the beggars stopped coming. After several months, a man knocked on
her door again. “Madam, I am hungry. Please give me the rake.”
God’s Word is alive. To make it
effective, He always works together with it, turning it into rhema. The
commands in the Word are not hard and fast rules. We must apply them with
wisdom that comes from the Lord. If our attitude is one of wanting to obey the
Lord and please Him, He will guide us in doing good works the way He wants them
done. Remember, it is He who prepared the good works for us to do (Ephesians
2:10). We are His arms and legs here on earth. This is the ideal Christian
life: walking closely with the Lord, doing what He would have liked to do
Himself but chose to do through us instead. To be continued.
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