Sunday, 17 November 2019

44. Please read this, it's Important! Pete's Story - How to Love your Enemies Part 2

In the previous post we have started to discuss Matthew 5:43-48: “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing the same? And if you greet only your brothers, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.”

For those living in South Africa, the extent of racial prejudice is no secret. We all know of the invisible wall that still exists between the majority of different races. We know how races avoid each other and call each other insulting names. One still sees and hears of extremist and hate-filled interracial behaviour. We do, however, find minorities that have excellent relationships across racial borders.
If it is like that years after apartheid was abandoned, how must it have been during the peak of racism—the time when Pete committed his crimes? He stole because the only impression he had of white people was one of oppressors who lived in luxury while he and his family had to live in poverty. Only in jail did Christians reach his heart.
Imagine that all people calling themselves Christians, especially the white people of that day, had obeyed the Lord’s teaching and loved their enemies. The Lord did not ask us to like our enemies. He wanted us to be patient, kind, not envious, not boastful, not proud, not rude, not self-seeking, not easily angered, not keeping record of wrongs with our enemies. He wanted us not to delight in evil but rejoice with the truth. He wanted us always to protect and trust our enemies, always to hope the best for and persevere with our enemies.
How can you trust your enemies? You trust the Lord to deal with them.
If Pete’s enemies, white people, loved him as above, do you think that he would still have wanted to break in and steal from them? Would he have wasted seven of the best years of his life in prison? How many Petes are there in prison - tens, hundreds, thousands? If their enemies loved them, would they have wasted their lives in prison?
We are not talking only about the Petes who were hurt by racism. There are many Petes all over the world who are embittered by many other things. Most of those in prison are embittered by their parents, society, or even religion. It can be anything. In the process they have made many enemies, and as a result, they act as enemies to society and not only to individuals.
When a rebellious young person acts violently against an individual or vandalizes private property, it does not necessarily mean that person has anything against that individual. He might not even know the person. If such a rebel has a grudge against society, and if society shows him nothing but love instead of dumping him in jail, won’t he eventually change his attitude?
Most good and ordinary people have families who give them lots of love and attention. But consider the street children, drug addicts, gang members, etc. Would they have become like that if they had caring and praying families? I say no; they would have been with their families instead of on the streets.
What happens to those youngsters once they’ve grown up? They become criminals. What would then be the best way to prevent crime? Love those unloved ones! If each Christian would go out once or twice a week and love the unloved, crime and vandalism would decrease in most countries. The enemies of society do not need policing, they need love. Even lonely adults need only to be loved and listened to now and then.
Jesus said to pray for those who persecute you. Why must we do that? It is simply because they do not know what they are doing. Jesus prayed on the cross: “Father, forgive them for they do not know what they are doing (Luke 23:34).” Persecutors are hurting and vulnerable to instigation from the devil. The murderers, thieves, vandals, and so on are hurting because they compare their terrible circumstances with the seemingly glittering conditions of the “fortunate” as they see them. The hurt of embittered people is the ideal breeding ground for the sin of persecution, and the Lord can bring light to their darkened minds only if somebody prays for them.
Jesus spelled out the sacrifice of love. We are to love those who do not love us. Godly love is not a business deal. We are not to give while looking for what we can get.
Jesus mentioned tax collectors. They were businessmen. They had found out that if they “love” their customers, they get results in the form of money. The friendly person in the modern shop has the same intentions, and so do most businesspersons or professionals in today’s world. But if you owe them money, see how their “love” changes?
Jesus also mentioned greeting only our brothers. Have you ever walked past somebody you knew, but she completely ignored you? The next moment she heartily greeted somebody else, maybe a client or friend. How did you feel? Rejected? Like scum?
How many people have you made to feel like scum, an outcast, by not even greeting them, let alone loving them? Love is a sacrifice; it is doing something you don’t really want to do, greeting and loving the unacceptable for the sake of the Kingdom of God.
The youth outreach team of our church often worked with street kids. We gave them as much clean fun as possible and linked that to the name of Jesus. (I’m not talking about religious Children’s Church stuff, but about playing, chatting, and so forth.) I hope one day they will look back, saying, “The greatest times in my miserable street life were when Jesus played with me.”
As a pharmacist in the United Kingdom, part of my job was to issue a heroin-replacement medicine to addicts to help them break the power of that drug. Since I love these people so much, I spent a lot of time chatting with and loving them while handing them the drug. I asked about their families, played with their kids when they accompany their parents, and congratulated them when their dose had been reduced. 
When I hand medicine out, I regularly ask people whether they want to be healed and when they want it, I pray a short authoritative prayer for their healing, trusting the Lord to be true to His Word in Mark 16:17-18: "And these signs will accompany those who believe: In my name they will drive out demons; they will speak in new tongues; they will pick up snakes with their hands; and when they drink deadly poison, it will not hurt them at all; they will place their hands on sick people, and they will get well.”  These are not necessarily people I like, and some often don't treat me well, but this type of love would draw attention, and people would ask why I do it. When the time is right, somebody will ask me, and I will answer that Jesus loves them. Even if they don't ask me, the Holy Spirit will reveal it to them, leading to them searching for Jesus.
The world is used to competing with their enemies, having to fight their own battles, and overcoming their own hardships. If their enemies then show them gentleness, kindness, and forgiveness, it will be impossible for them not to notice a difference. Guess who will benefit by it: the Kingdom of God.
Love, however, does not come naturally. Love comes only from God. We are way too selfish by nature to love unconditionally. For us to obey this commandment, we need to be filled to the brim with the Holy Spirit’s presence and then simply make the decision to obey.
Jesus ended these words with "Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.” Don't miss the revelation in the next message on what He meant by 'be perfect'!

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